Why?

Why do people get so uneasy around others? Why do we want to speak from our mouths but are too humiliated to put our hands up? Quite frankly, no one knows why we get so mortified around others when we know them so well. To many of us worry about what other people’s judgments are about us, but really why do we care. The only opinion that should matter about yourself is your own. No one else knows you better than you do, so why listen to what other people THINK. You should never feel worried about making mistakes or messing up, because I guarantee everyone has made mistakes before.

Mistakes are a common thing in the lives of people. No matter how much people can say they do not mess up, that is not true because a fact is no one can be perfect. When you make a fault you should never feel as if you want to run out of the room because you are embarrassed, you laugh it off and try again. What is the big deal about that? The reason you do this is because everyone has made missteps in their life. Now, when you make crucial mistakes that are important, than you should consider maybe thinking about how to fix it right away. When little mistakes are made as in answering a question wrong, or not doing good on a test, that is a little thing you should not worry about.You have to think how to improve, and only try your hardest. Now, when you don't try your hardest that is when you need to get on the right path. I know it is much easier to say how to act when you make a mistake because you know you can do better, rather than actually doing the actions. You just have to try and feel contented around others. There is a saying on a poster I saw that said “It is not a mistake, it is a happy accident”. This saying should be lived off of throughout everyone’s lives because that is beyond doubt the way to look at mistakes.

You should never feel humiliated about making mistakes, because everyone has made plenty of them. You always have to act like yourself and be your own person because, no one wants to know how another individual acts, since that is not the real you. Making mistakes and being embarrassed comes into play throughout everyday life. That is just the way it is.